Friday, January 23, 2026

January musings

Well, this has certainly been one frigid month, hasn't it? I'm hoping that when February arrives the tide will turn and things will begin to warm up... It does make for good stitching weather, but I've found it hard to settle lately. The world seems to be spinning out of control lately and even my stitching doesn't  seem to be helping relieve the stress. So few stitches have been added lately...

The finishes I'm going to share with you today were all stitched and given away as Christmas gifts in December. Thankfully, all arrived safely and in good time. After much thought, I've come to the decision that I won't be exchanging stitched gifts any longer. To be honest--I'm simply getting older and my eyes are as well. I just don't stitch as quickly as I used to and what extras I do stitch, I'd like to be for my family. I truly hope everyone understands--and may even be a bit relieved! I've received so many wonderful gifts over the past 17 years since I began blogging--from all over the world: the U.S. and Canada, of course, but also England, Ireland, France, The Netherlands, Spain, Portugal, Germany, The Czech Republic, Austria, New Zealand, Australia, and South Africa! Amazing, how a simple hobby like cross stitch can draw us together. We may not speak the same languages, but we speak the language of needle, thread, and fabric--one tiny thread  on a blank canvas that starts out as a single stitch and grows into a beautiful design. I'm so thankful for each of the gifts my fellow stitchers have sent me since I began my blog on January 24, 2009 (17 years ago tomorrow!). But, I'm even more thankful for the friendships!

Many of these designs are ones I've stitched for myself in the past, including this first one. I'll post the details on each finish in the caption underneath the photos...

"Joys of Christmas" by The Drawn Thread stitched on 28 ct. dirty linen. Love the two-colored cording and teeny buttons on the snowman!

 

"Good Tidings to You" by The Sampler Girl (found in the 2011 Just Cross Stitch Ornament magazine). I stitched this one "over one" on 28 ct. tea dyed Monaco with DMC threads (I changed the red to DMC 221).

 

Prairie Schooler's "A Christmas Visit" (Book No. 48). I stitched this sunflower Santa on 40 ct. vintage country mocha with the suggested DMC threads. 

 

This cutie gingerbread boy card is by Crocette a Gogò from the chart called "Christmas Green Chic." I also stitched this one in 2024 and made it into an ornament which you can read about here

 

Peace and Noel from Hands on Design's "Oh, Christmas Three" chart made into greeting cards. They're both done "over one" on 25 ct. black Lugana.

 

A trio of charming cardinals, stitched on 40 ct. vintage country mocha are from "Christmas Advent Calendar" by Crocette a Gogò. She also has some wonderful free charts on her website right here.

 

For my 5-year-old grandson, Mister B, I made this cute dinosaur sporting a Santa cap. He is stitched "over one" on 25 ct. black Lugana with the suggested DMC threads. The chart is one I found on Etsy (right here) by MaxStitchesArt and is called "Christmas Velociraptor."

 

And I know you'll recognize this gingerbread boy ornament--I think I must have stitched it at least 10 times now! It is from the JBW Design's chart called "Baby's First Christmas." I changed up the colors a bit and stitched it on 32 ct. black Belfast linen. This was for my youngest grandson and is always my go-to gift for new baby boys.
  

 

Shoulder replacement surgery update... Thank you to all who wished my husband well on his right shoulder replacement surgery which took place on January 5th. The surgery itself was supposed to last 1 1/2 to 2 hours. When the 3rd hour wrapped up, I was beginning to worry that I hadn't heard from the doctor yet! About 15 minutes later, the doctor finally appeared in the waiting room to say everything was fine. She explained that it took longer than normal because "the component was larger than expected." WHAT?! I can just picture them scrambling around to find the "right size component" for my husband's shoulder! Anyway, he's been home recovering for over two weeks now--and, like most men, he is a very "impatient patient." At times I feel like I'm having to tell a toddler "no!" "No, you can't go shovel the driveway," "No, you can't do a spin on the exercise bike," "No, you can't lift that heavy pan!" You get the idea... 

He received some much appreciated and extremely thoughtful gifts during his recovery. For those of you who are looking to do something special for someone who is recovering from surgery, any of these would make fine gifts. It looks like a lot of food, but my youngest son had driven up from D.C. to assist us that first week and he certainly helped gobble everything up very quickly! 

The dried fruit tray on a bamboo cutting board was a gift from his old office and came from 1-800-baskets.com. The wonderful fruit and chocolate tray came from a former coworker from Edible Arrangements. And the containers of chicken noodle soup and yummy rolls and cookies came from my youngest sister and her husband from Spoonful of Comfort. All were just wonderful! 

Another trip around the sun... Yes, I'm a year older! After all that worrying when I turned 70, I'm happy to say I survived my first year in my '70s just fine. My 71st (how can that be?!) birthday on the 16th was very quiet this year since my husband was recovering from his surgery. My middle son came over that evening and picked up pizza on the way so I wouldn't have to cook. I received some wonderful cross stitch charts and linen, gift cards to a restaurant, Etsy, and 123 Stitch, and a box filled with a dozen tasty chocolate-covered strawberries. But, the very best gift of all (in my eyes) was the fact that my dear husband, one-handedly, made cupcakes so I would have a sweet treat. Now, in our nearly 49 years of marriage, I don't think he's ever baked a cupcake--and for him to do so while recovering from shoulder surgery truly touched my heart. They were so good--chocolate (made from scratch!) with peanut butter frosting (I did make the frosting and decorate them for him as he couldn't use the mixer or pipe the frosting with one hand). For me, it's always been the simple gestures like this that have meant the most in our marriage. How about you? 

My 71st birthday and still smiling :) 

The best thing about growing older has been experiencing being a grandmother. The joy that Mister B and Baby N have brought me is almost indescribable. They just love me for me! Even if I appear on FaceTime with rumpled bedhead hair still in my pj's--they still smile and seem excited to see me and my heart just melts. 

Grandma stage--the best stage in life!

Time does pass by way too quickly in our older years, doesn't it? As kids, we were always anxious to get to our next birthday or next milestone, but when you're older, you only wish for time to slow down. I'm still in awe of the many changes a baby goes through in that twelve month period before the first birthday. From helpless blobs to rolling over to sitting to crawling to standing to those first hesitant steps. It's quite a miracle, really. I'm so blessed to still be here to witness these sweet boys growing up!

Baby N turned 8 months old this month

 
Mister B instructing Baby N in the fine art of car racing!

So, what's on my agenda for the last week of January? Would you believe I still have my Christmas tree and outdoor lights up?! That is a new record for me, for sure. I've so enjoyed the light from them this month, but it's time... I'm not going to turn into one of "those" neighbors :) So, after the last bit of Christmas is tucked away, I plan to do some cleaning out of closets and drawers. Who am I kidding that I'll ever wear those clothes from fifteen years ago that no longer fit? I hope you enjoy this final week of what always seems to be a long, dull month. Take care now--especially those of you who are in the path of the ice and snow storm that is forecast here in the U.S. A foot of snow is expected in our region--we'll see how accurate the weather service is this time! Thank you all for stopping by to say "hello!" Bye for now...

30 comments:

Anonymous said...

Many happy returns of the day grandma Carol. I rarely comment but truly have enjoyed your blog. Your work is beautiful and inspirational. Thank you.

Lissy said...

Liebe Carol, ich bin eine unbekannte treue Leserin seit Jahren. Liebe Glückwünsche und noch viele Jahre Gesundheit und Freude im Kreise Deiner Lieben!!!!!

Sandy said...

There is nothing like being a grandma. I realized once that they will only know me as a gray haired older lady, but I pour out love and attention to any and all things. They return it with acting like I am amazing. It is just too precious.
The stitching is all lovely and yes, the world has gone mad. I just do my best to only take in limited amounts of it and just live. Happy belated birthday! I have definitely been off my game this year and I don’t know whether to chalk it up to aging or that I am spinning more plates than one should.

Mrs T said...

Many happy returns! Yes being a grandmother is the best even if it is from a distance

Gail said...

Happy Belated Birthday! Happy to hear your hubby is doing well. We are hunkering down here in Northeast Ohio hopefully ready for the worst storm in 10 years, according to the weather forecast. We shall see as we’re right along Lake Erie. Your stitching is always amazing and inspiring. I fully understand the feeling of slowing down. I’m not stitching as fast as I used to. I am also dealing with the Dr appointments that my husband needs to prepare him for heart valve replacement surgery coming in February. And, of course, being a Nana is the best but unfortunately I don’t get to see them as much as I would like. Have a safe rest of January!

Anonymous said...

Hi Carol, Happy Belated Birthday! It’s great that your husband is doing well enough to bake you cupcakes. I agree, being a grandma is just the best! My 2 grandsons have brought me so much joy in their 4 1/2 & 5 yrs. I adore them and they love me in return. All of your stitched gifts are so pretty and perfectly finished. I don’t know how you found time for all of them. I can barely get an ornament for each of my grandsons done in time! Stay warm and dry! We don’t have any snow headed our way, but had a temp of -18 this morning, with a windchill of -45, on the east coast of WI! Take care, Cherie in WI

Shelly said...

Happy Belated Birthday, Carol! Stay warm! Good to hear your hubby is on the mend. I think he's a keeper after making you cupcakes for your birthday🙂 what a guy! I feel like this month went by faster than previous Januarys. This weekend it's actually going to be winter here!😳 rain but snow in the higher elevations. Happy stitching, Carol!

marie2L said...

Joyeux Anniversaire Carol
Bon rétablissement à ton mari
A many lovely time with little boys, quiet time to stitch and travel.

Manuela said...

Hello Carol,
Happy Belated Birthday to you.
All the little gift you have made are so beautiful. I love my card very much.
Thanks for sharing the photos from your grandchildren. Yes they grow up so fast.
All the best for your husband and I hope the snowstorm is not so bad.
Have a nice weekend and a big Hugs,Manuela

Marilyn said...

As far as exchanging, you have to do what's best for you.
Your ornaments are always so beautifully finished.
Aren't replacements weird & amazing at the same time?
I just had an ankle replacement, it's really weird looking, for sure!
I hope hubby is recovering well.
Happy belated Birthday! Those cupcakes look yummy!
The little guys are so cute together.
I hope the storm isn't too bad for you.
Take care.
Marilyn

Nellie said...

Happy belated birthday, Carol! Wishing you a year of love and stitching. 🧁

Robin in Virginia said...

Happy belated birthday, Carol! The cupcakes Tim made look so tasty. And you are right about it being the simple gestures. I am glad his shoulder recovery is going well. The ornaments you stitched and gave away are all beautiful. I can't get over that Baby N is 8 months. Stay warm and cozy and be safe with this incoming storm. If the forecast is right, we are in the 8-12 inch band of snow with up to 1/4 inch of ice on top. Thinking of you.

Vickie said...

All of the ornaments are beauties! I am so glad your husband's surgery went well and I understand about his recovery. Men do not make good patients I think!!! But the cupcakes were so special. This time of year inspires us to throw things out or give away, doesn't it? I have told myself to throw one thing away every day for two weeks and I am doing it!

Patty said...

Happy Belated Birthday! I always love to see your postings with all the lovely photos of your stitching, home and family. Your grandsons are adorable……enjoy every minute of your time with them. They grow so fast…..5 of ours are now driving which is so nerve wracking in these city streets and highways.
Best wishes to you and your hubby during his recovery and during this severe winter storm that has hit our country. Hope you remain safe and warm…….Happy Stitching!!💕

Anonymous said...

So enjoy your blog. Eighty-three years old, had a stroke, moved in with my daughter and her family, but still stitching, albeit much slower. Having cataract surgery in February so, I will be able to see those holes more clearly. Best to you and all the community of stitchers.

Anonymous said...

That is a beautiful photo of you, Carol! Happy Birthday!

ndavis said...
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ndavis said...

Happy belated birthday, Carol. Mine was on the 22nd & I turned 71, We are also expecting a lot of snow this weekend in South Central PA 8 - 12 inches. Stay save & warm and stitch to your heart's content.

Anonymous said...

Carol, you are always so good about giving the details of the items you stitch or as in this entry, the details of the gifts you all enjoyed following your husband’s shoulder surgery. I really appreciate that. Here in central Texas we are geared up for ice and sleet. We’ll stay indoors for a couple of days. Our church services have been cancelled and we’ve plenty of food on hand. I hope our coop keeps the power going. And we have lots of wood for the wood stove. I like January for its slow pace and time to start some things anew. I have a tiny collection of snow people that I keep out this month, and I’ve set up my four little lighted houses this year and they’re still out to enjoy each night. Your trees are so gorgeous that you should keep them up longer! I think it’s sad to tuck away Christmas quickly by the end of December. Take care and keep blogging, please. I so enjoy each of your visits. Cheers to your husband for his birthday baking!!!!! Carol in Texas

Christel said...

Comme je vous comprends Carol. La monde part en effet à la dérive, c'est inquiétant et très stressant. Comme vous, je n'ai que peu brodé et lu ces dernières semaines.
Les activités manuelles rassemblent, c'est un bonheur. Nous parlons effectivement le langage de l'aiguille. Je pense que personne ne vous en voudra si vous n'adressez plus de cadeaux brodés. C'est déjà un grand bonheur de venir admirer vos réalisations sur votre blog.
Merci pour le joli défilé de vos cadeaux brodés cette année, les destinataires sont forcément ravis.
Un homme malade ou en convalescence demande une bonne dose de patience... C'est vrai que l'on dirait des enfants...
C'est très sympathique tous ces cadeaux reçus. S'il a déjà tout avalé c'est que c'est un grand gourmand...
Bon anniversaire en retard... Mon fils cadet à fêter ses 30 ans le 16 janvier également... Je fêterai mes 61 ans vendredi prochain...
Vous avez été bien gâtée pour votre anniversaire. Et en effet, quel beau cadeau que ces cupcakes préparés presque entièrement par votre mari. C'est charmant.
Etre grand-mère est un véritable bonheur.
J'espère que la tempête polaire annoncée vous épargnera. J'ai vu les images à la télévision, j'étais glacée rien qu'en les regardant...
Amitiés de France.

Barbara said...

Happy Birthday! You've joined the 70 Club! You look wonderful (I love your hairstyle).

diamondc said...

Greetings Sandy: I am so happy to hear your husband is doing well after surgery and baking too, Happy Belated Birthday, I turn 75 on Monday the 26th, I still fell young I do keep active.
It is always so lovely to see your finished stitched works, your finishing is so beautiful.
What wonderful gifts for you on your birthday and gifts for your husbands recovery, thank-you for the link.
Mr. N is so cute, 8 months has flown by, you can tell Mr. B loves him so much. I hope you do not get that much snow, here it is only getting to a high of 4 above zero, brrrr.

Catherine

Isabelle said...

Bonjour carol ! tout d'abord, joyeux anniversaire (un peu en retard !) et si je peux me permettre on ne dirait pas que tu as 71 ans ! tu es superbe ! les décorations que tu as brodées et offertes ont certainement fait le bonheur de leurs destinataires ! mais je comprends que tu aies envie d'arrêter d'en envoyer un peu partout dans le monde ; c'est beaucoup de travail et de temps. Je t'envie d'avoir des petits-enfants, je n'ai pas (encore) cette chance... Courage pour ton mari (et pour toi ! les hommes sont de grands enfants...) ! Je te souhaite un doux mois de février (nous fêterons les 21 ans de notre fils le 5) et te remercie chaleureusement pour tes gentils commentaires qui font chaud au coeur !

Isabel para ALROMASAR said...

I always enjoy seeing your cross-stitch work, Carol!
It's a pleasure to visit and see that everything went well with your husband's surgery.
It's definitely the little things that make life worthwhile. 🤗
Hugs and kisses fom Spain

Karolk said...

Happy belated birthday, Carol! How sweet of your husband to make you cupcakes! I was so happy to hear that his surgery was successful and recovery is going well - albeit not fast enough. 😅
I think of you (and my family in WNY) when the weather report comes on. What a January it's been for you all. I hope February brings a bit of respite from the frigid temps and snow. Loved seeing all your "smalls" - especially the cardinals. Please give your husband my wishes for a speedier recovery! Stay warm!

Melisa- pinkernpunkinquilting said...

Happy Belated Birthday, Carol . Such a beautiful photo of you and how sweet of your dear hubby to make you cupcakes. I do wish your hubby a very speedy recovery and I hope he is in not too much pain and discomfort. It is hard to believe that Mr. N is 8 months old. My how time flies. There is nothing like the grandchildren that is for sure. Warm hugs.

Sue said...

Belated Birthday Wishes to you. Time sure does fly, I agree. It was touching to read of your special treats on your birthday prepared by your husband. I hope he continues to heal well. I agree, grandchildren are the best. It is a joy to be near them. Love seeing your stitched pieces- very inspiring! I live in a warm climate but I can imagine winter gets difficult after a while. I hope you were not hit by too much snow this weekend. Take care!

Irene said...

Happy birthday, Carol! I'm so glad your husband's shoulder surgery went well; now he just needs to rest. Your embroidery is always beautiful; even if the subject is simple, your finishing touches make it wonderful.

Clare-Aimetu said...

Happy Birthday Carol, enjoy being a grandma. Lovely stitching and finishing.

butterfly said...

Happy Birthday Carol , I am near the next 0 ! hubby has already hit it , your as young as you feel .Sorry I am a little late . Your stitching is always so beautiful .love your post.
We are having a few storms here not nice , I have never seen so much rain , there are floods every where .
I have not had much time to get on my PC .
Have a fun week hugs June